The Foreclosure That Was Home to a Village Our Family

I spent my Sunday trying to lift my spirit. Oprahโ€™s Soul Sunday offered a line from Gary Zukav that stayed with me: โ€œA partnership between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth.โ€ That was my morning anchor. By afternoon, I wanted to be intelligently entertained, so I turned to the Showtime series House of Lies and, yes, I watched the entire first season in a single sweep.

On the surface itโ€™s all gloss: boardroom deals, under-the-table betrayals, the choreography of sex and swagger. Don Cheadleโ€™s Marty slides through it all. But beneath the bravado, something familiar moved under my skin.

I once worked as a Deloitte Project Coordinator. I know the language, the tactics, the way consultants talk about being โ€œbeachedโ€ benched, sidelined, disposable. In one episode, a school principal casually dismantles Martyโ€™s spin because she was once a Deloitte PM. Itโ€™s funny until it isnโ€™t. Itโ€™s funny until you recognize yourself.

And then Episode 1 goes straight to the foreclosure crisis. That wasnโ€™t fiction for me. That was my life.

I had poured more than $100,000 into renovations over the years sweat, savings, permanence. And then, by October 2009, the house was gone and with it all the years of deep attachment to ownership

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๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—˜ ๐—›๐—”๐——๐—˜๐—˜๐—— ๐—ฆ๐—”๐—š๐—” | ๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—š๐—˜๐—ฅ ๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ซ๐—”๐—ก๐——๐—˜๐—ฅ | ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—™๐—”๐—–๐—˜ ๐—ข๐—™ ๐—˜๐—ซ๐—˜๐—–๐—จ๐—ง๐—œ๐—ฉ๐—˜ ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ช๐—˜๐—ฅ
๐—ง๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ ๐— ๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ข๐— ๐—˜๐—ง๐—›๐—œ๐—ก๐—š, ๐—ง๐—ฅ๐—œ๐—ก๐—œ๐——๐—”๐—— ๐—”๐—ก๐—— ๐—ง๐—ข๐—•๐—”๐—š๐—ข… ๐—ช๐—›๐—ข ๐—œ๐—ฆ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—ง๐—ง๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—จ๐—ฃ ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—–๐—ข๐—จ๐—ก๐—ง๐—ฅ๐—ฌ ๐—™๐—ข๐—ฅ ๐—œ๐—ง๐—ฆ ๐—˜๐—–๐—ข๐—ก๐—ข๐— ๐—œ๐—–, ๐—ง๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—œ๐—ฆ๐— , ๐—š๐—Ÿ๐—ข๐—•๐—”๐—Ÿ ๐—œ๐——๐—˜๐—ก๐—ง๐—œ๐—ง๐—ฌ ๐—”๐—ก๐—— ๐—ฆ๐—ฃ๐—œ๐—ฅ๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐——๐—ข๐—ช๐—ก๐—™๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—Ÿ?
๐— ๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต ๐— ๐—ฐ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ข๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐˜€ ๐—”๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐—Ÿ๐—ฎ๐˜„ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ž๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐˜† ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ช๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—จ๐—น๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜† ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฉ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐˜† ๐—ข๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ
๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—ช๐—”๐—ฆ๐—›๐—œ๐—ก๐—š๐—ง๐—ข๐—ก ๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—™๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—–๐—ง๐—œ๐—ก๐—š ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ข๐—Ÿ: ๐—ช๐—›๐—˜๐—ก ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—–๐—จ๐—  ๐—ฅ๐—œ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—ฆ ๐—ง๐—ข ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—ฆ๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—™๐—”๐—–๐—˜, ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐— ๐—œ๐—ฅ๐—ฅ๐—ข๐—ฅ ๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—˜๐—”๐—Ÿ๐—ฆ ๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—ก๐—”๐—ง๐—œ๐—ข๐—ก

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